Wednesday, April 17, 2013

One year ago...yesterday

Exactly One Year Ago, yesterday, April 16, 2012 our lives changed in an instant!

We had just gotten back from our LEAP trip to Haiti that evening and were exhausted. Blake, like the usual hard worker he is, went to go check on the pool, our garden and yard. I on the other hand went to take a MUCH needed shower and to take a pregnancy test. Thinking we were not going to be pregnant this month since we had taken that month "off" of trying due to being out of town in Watercolor for our anniversary trip and then Haiti...Little did we know our God had other plans. I knew I had to take a pregnancy test that night so I could call our infertility Dr the next morning to let them know we were ready to start our next round of treatment. I remember having such unbearable stomach pain in Haiti and praying to God that if it was my appendix (I swore it was appendicitis) that he would put off any pain or rupture until I got back to the states and could go to a hospital at home...my guess now is it was our precious angel boy finding his home in my belly. Snuggling in if you will. Words can not do justice the joy, shock, and utter surprise I felt when I saw the words "pregnant" pop up on that test. It was, next to meeting you for the very first time, the most surreal and BEST moment ever of our road down parenthood. I'm not even going to try and type anything else on here to describe that night. I just know our God is the most gracious and loving father ever. No one can fathom all that he has planned for us. Ephesians 3:20 and 1 Corinthians 2:9. I thank our precious Lord everyday for the gift of our child. I pray we never take him for granted and love him unconditionally, like our Father in Heaven does for us.


Here is a tid-bit of that night. I had some of these OSU things saved for the day when I could tell your daddy that we were pregnant & since we just got back in town and had nothing in the fridge...I went and got pizza for dinner for us from Prego's. The sono was of the "egg" that my Dr was somewhat watching that round...Blake was unable to go with me to that Dr's appt so the Dr printed it off for him since I had not had ANY type of response in the previous rounds, this "egg" was a BIG deal (apparently BIGGER than we ever knew!)

It was PERFECT! PERFECT. And thank you Lord for electronics because I have it all on video too-although I'm not sure how to post video's on blogs :/ so you just get a still photo :)



Charles Hatch Bowen. My eyes fill with tears of joy just thinking about how you were brought into our world. You are the absolute BEST thing that has happened to your Daddy and I. I pray you not only see that in the way we love you, but also FEEL it. And more than that, I pray that you know that, even though you can't see or feel Jesus, that you know that he loves you infinite times more than your daddy and I do.

Thank you Lord for your blessings, big and small.

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Lately...

Yes, I am posting two blog posts in a day...Don't judge. I'm WAY behind so while I'm sitting in one spot for more than 10 minutes (outside of eating a meal) I am getting this checked off my to-do list :)

Here's the cliff-notes version of our month thus far :)



Arboretum for KK's bday

Blake and I-He was in HEAVEN with all those flowers!

Hatch and his girlfriend-Libby

Happy Easter!


Sanny introducing Hatch to the duckies that are being added to the Bowen's backyard pond :) Can't wait for him to play with them in the years to come!


Hatch's first Easter basket



Hatch and Cousin Sam = Best Buds and lots of fun play dates






Almost rolling over...



Exersaucer time


He's started teething...you can see his bottom right tooth coming in. Praying all his teeth come in with as little pain as possible.



Belly Laughs After Bathtime

Bathtime


Naptime with Daddy




We celebrated our 4 year anniversary with an overnight staycation! My husband is the most incredible man and father. Words do not do justice how immensely blessed I am by his presence in my life. He loves me better than I could have dreamt a man would love me, he is an engaging father, an incredible best friend, a hard worker, and provides/tends/cares for our house, home, and family as I know God would have him do. I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him! Our goodbye kiss as we leave for our FIRST night away from this angel!


Pics from KK while we were away


Playtime

On a walk with KK-looks likes he's "cheering" her on.. Go KK Go!


Still at KK's and sleeping like an angel





Did I mention he's teething? Think he'd rather have the real thing ;)


Just a little morning reading-he's wondering why these dogs don't look like Kenzie...



He turned 5 months! Holy Moly! Time is FLYING by...and we are trying to soak up EVERY moment of it. Thank you Lord for these 5 months, his incredible health, and the family you have blessed us with.


We love to have backyard picnics and playtime (aka mama needs a change of scenery and with this FABULOUS weather she needs some Vitamin D too!)


Airplane


Look at that Angel face!



His first visit down to the lake to visit Mimi and MawMaw! Traveling with him is quite the task-lots of luggage and the first night he usually doesn't sleep through the night, but by the second night he seemed to get it figured out. He did REALLY well during the days though! He is ONE HAPPY baby & everyone kept commenting on what a smiley baby you are Hatch. Someone even commented that hadn't heard you cry or saw a frown all weekend long. As much as we'd like to take credit and be uber proud parents, we know it's not us at all but how God created you. And we know he created you JUST right. ;) Keep on letting your light shine little buddy. Spread His love!


P.S.
Here are some 5 month stats
I weighed you the other day at our Square One Mom's group and you weighed 15lbs 9oz with a clothes and a wet diaper on so you are growing, growing, GROWING!!!

You are wearing size 2 diapers

You feed at 8:15/30ish, 11-12(depending on how long your morning nap goes), 2,5,8...we won't start baby food until after your 6 month appointment.

Your bedtime is around 8:30 and you wake up around 7:45-8.

You are still napping about 4 times a day about 90minutes after you feed but I think transitioning to fewer naps...because your first morning nap looks like this
9:30-10:30/11:30/12 (depending on the day thus why I think your consolidating naps). Either way, right now you nap much better in the morning than you do in the afternoon.

You are wearing 3 month clothes with some 3-6 month clothes in there to-still a little big but that just means we are getting our money's (and wear's) worth on your clothing!

Your hand:eye coordination is spot on! Anytime we put something within reach of your little arms you reach out and grab/touch it. Again, Daddy thinks you are SO athletic ;)

You love to chew on mommy's fingers and your teething toys. We know these teeth are going to come in and we can't pray that away, but we pray that come in quick and with little pain.

The only times you fuss is when you get bored with a toy and need a new scene, for about 3-5 seconds when we lay you down to nap you sometimes fuss but then realize you are tired and mom/dad know whats best for you and quickly stop. You have had a couple of nights when you get fussy because you haven't gotten enough sleep during the day. One time daddy took you to some friends and gave mommy the night off--I got a phone call about an hour in to you all being gone that I needed to meet you all in a parking lot. I could hear you crying in the background. Wailing is more like it. I have never heard you cry like that.Bless daddy's heart, he couldn't get you to calm down and needed some help. So I stayed on the phone singing to you and praying the whole time til we met in the Kroger parking lot ;) Since then you have only had one more fussy session at night...and then the lights went on...you CRAVE your schedule! So if we stick to your schedule and make sure you get enough sleep you are SO happy. Of course we pray and want to practice flexibility too ;)

You love to talk on your changing table, in the car, and in the evening. You are quite the giggley little fellow and your daddy and I just can't stand it! You are SO easy going that you have spoiled us. If all of our babies (God willing we get to have more) were like you we'd have enough children to have a football team ;)

We might venture out and take you to childcare at the gym soon (the dr would prefer May 1 so we will see) because this lady is SO ready to get back to working out. Although, the weather here has been WONDERFUL so we have been going on LOTS of long walks/runs! We are so lucky to have Alexis and her new baby, Emerson, live just a couple of streets away because they are our walking/running buddies. We are just about to pick a 5k to run together. :) Thank the Lord for new mommy friends. They are a lifesaver!

Ponca Visit...a month late :/

So here is a re-cap of our visit to Ponca to see Papa Charlie and his Great Nanny and Papa.

We had his FIRST visit to the ranch which was a success and it was SO fun to watch him stare at all the horses and cows. We can't wait til he 'really' gets what they are and can enjoy it more! We ate LOTS of good food, including one of my childhood favorites: money pancakes! Blake jokes that we need to get a second stomach for when we are with my family just because there is always SO much good food to be had :) Needless to say, I never met a Mertz who was a picky eater ;).
We had so much fun playing with our cousins and aunts too! Blake loved working on the ranch, hauling some hay, and then taking a good ole cowboy nap :) I think he was a cowboy in another life. He is the hardest worker I know and fits right in with the Mertz Men.
We adored every minute of this trip and can NOT wait to get back up there!

Hatch and his Great Papa

Little Cowboy in the making


Peyton loving on Hatch-we got a visit in with The Schmidt's on the way to Ponca! JUST L-O-V-E that family!

Papa C and Hatch

This is a baby holdup!

The REAL Cowboy

Papa's money pancakes

Hatch and his Great Nanny-she's IN LOVE!

His pouty face...just before a cry...it's AWESOME b/c if we see this we can distract/soothe him before the cry gets out!


Just checkin on the cows

Na-a-a-y says the horse

Shoulda been a cowboy

Cousin Caroline...who is UBER smart! She taught Hatch that he is a mammal! Thank you for that Caroline!

a cowboy nap

two of my most favorite people!

Papa C creating some Hatch giggles

the BEST family in the WORLD!
There is truly no family that compares to our, goofy, fun loving, cRaZy, hard working, Jesus loving, servants heart, creative family...So many prayers are sent awnry up that even though Hatch isn't carrying on the Mertz name that inherits qualities and characteristics from the Mertz side.